Escort Work Etiquette for Travel Clients: Do’s and Don’ts

When you’re working as an escort for travel clients, the job isn’t just about being present-it’s about managing expectations, setting boundaries, and making someone feel respected, even if the relationship is temporary. Travel clients come from all over the world, with different customs, languages, and assumptions. One mistake in etiquette can turn a smooth booking into a nightmare. The difference between a repeat client and a bad review often comes down to small, consistent acts of professionalism.

Do: Research Your Client’s Background

Before meeting a travel client, check their profile on AdultWork or any platform you use. Look for clues: Are they from a country where punctuality is sacred, like Germany or Japan? Or do they come from a culture where flexibility around time is normal? Have they booked you before? Did they leave positive feedback? A client who’s traveled to three different cities in the last month likely values efficiency. Someone who’s never traveled outside their home country might need more guidance on what to expect.

Don’t assume. Don’t guess. A quick glance at their history tells you more than a hundred assumptions. If they mention a specific hotel or attraction in their message, reference it. Say something like, “I’ve heard the view from your hotel at sunset is incredible-would you like to grab coffee there before dinner?” That kind of detail shows you’re paying attention, not just going through the motions.

Do: Set Clear Boundaries Early

Boundaries aren’t rude-they’re necessary. The moment you confirm a booking, send a polite but firm message outlining what’s included and what’s not. Be specific. For example: “My services include companionship, dinner, and conversation. I do not provide sexual services, and I do not engage in alcohol-heavy sessions or late-night activities beyond 1 a.m.”

Some clients will test those boundaries. A travel client might say, “I paid for you-why can’t we just go to my room?” Don’t react emotionally. Stay calm. Say, “I understand you’re excited, but I have rules for my safety and peace of mind. I’m happy to keep hanging out if we stick to what we agreed.” If they push, end the meeting. Walk out. No apology needed. Your safety isn’t negotiable.

Don’t: Assume They Know Local Norms

A client from the U.S. might think tipping is expected for everything. A client from Scandinavia might assume silence is polite. A client from the Middle East might not understand why you’re wearing jeans to dinner. Don’t expect them to know British customs just because they’re in the UK.

Instead, guide them gently. If you’re going to a pub, say, “Most people here order a drink before food-want to try a pint?” If you’re at a restaurant, add, “The service charge is included, so no need to leave extra.” These small cues prevent awkwardness and show you’re thoughtful, not judgmental.

Do: Dress Appropriately for the Occasion

One of the biggest mistakes escorts make is dressing for themselves, not for the client’s expectations. If a client books you for a business dinner at a Michelin-starred restaurant, don’t show up in a mini dress and stilettos. You’ll look out of place-and they’ll feel embarrassed. If they’re heading to a casual rooftop bar, don’t show up in a full suit.

Ask: “What kind of vibe are we going for?” If they don’t answer, go for smart casual: tailored pants, a blouse or button-down, and low heels. It works for 90% of situations. You’re not there to outshine them-you’re there to make them feel confident.

Don’t: Share Personal Details

Travel clients often want to know more than they should. “Where do you live?” “Do you have family here?” “What’s your real name?”

Answer with polite deflection. “I like to keep my personal life separate from work.” Or, “I’m from Manchester, but I don’t talk much about home when I’m working.” Don’t lie-but don’t volunteer. The moment you start sharing your childhood, your ex, or your plans for next year, you blur the professional line. And once that line is crossed, it’s hard to pull back.

Do: Be Punctual and Reliable

Travel clients are often on tight schedules. They might have a flight in 12 hours or a meeting at 9 a.m. If you’re late, you’re not just inconveniencing them-you’re costing them money, time, and peace of mind.

Arrive 10 minutes early. Always. Even if the client says, “No rush, I’m just chilling.” Show up early anyway. It signals respect. If something comes up-traffic, a delayed train, a family emergency-text immediately. Don’t wait. Say, “Running 15 mins late due to a train delay. I’ll be there by 7:45. Sorry for the inconvenience.” Most clients will understand. What they won’t forgive is silence.

Don’t: Use Your Phone During the Date

Nothing kills the vibe faster than scrolling through Instagram while your client is talking about their trip to Bali. Even if you’re tired, even if you’re bored, even if you’re waiting for a message from your manager-put your phone away.

Put it on silent. Put it in your bag. If you need to check something, say, “Just quickly checking the time-back to you.” Keep eye contact. Ask follow-up questions. “What was the best part of your trip?” “Did you try the local food?” People remember how you made them feel, not what you said.

Do: End the Night Gracefully

Many clients don’t know how to say goodbye. They might want to keep going. They might feel awkward. They might not realize the evening is over.

Take control. About 15 minutes before your scheduled end time, say, “I’ve got an early start tomorrow, but I’ve really enjoyed our time tonight.” Then, if appropriate, add, “I hope you have a great flight tomorrow.” Stand up. Smile. Don’t linger. Don’t hug unless they initiate it.

If they offer a tip, accept it with a simple “Thank you.” Don’t comment on the amount. Don’t ask for more. Don’t act disappointed. A professional ending leaves the door open for a future booking-not resentment.

Don’t: Let Them Treat You Like a Commodity

Some travel clients think paying for your time gives them ownership. They might say, “You’re mine for the night.” Or, “I’ve booked you for three days-so you can’t see anyone else.”

That’s not how this works. You are not their possession. You are a professional providing a service. If they cross that line, say, “I’m here to spend time with you, not to be controlled.” If they keep pushing, end the booking. Block them. Report them. Your dignity isn’t part of the package.

Do: Keep a Record of Each Client

Keep a simple log: name (or alias), date, location, what you did, how they behaved, any special requests. You don’t need a spreadsheet. A notes app works fine.

Why? Because repeat bookings happen. A client who loved your company in London might book you again in Edinburgh. If you remember they hate loud music but love Italian food, you’ll make them feel special. That’s how you turn one-time clients into loyal ones.

Don’t: Let Emotions Get in the Way

Some clients are charming. Some are funny. Some make you laugh until your stomach hurts. That doesn’t mean you should start texting them after the job ends. Don’t follow them on Instagram. Don’t reply to “Hey, how was your night?” messages. Don’t get emotionally involved.

This job requires emotional distance. It’s not cold-it’s sustainable. The moment you start caring too much, you burn out. You start feeling used. You start doubting your worth. Keep the connection professional. It protects you.

Do: Trust Your Gut

If something feels off-too pushy, too eager, too vague-trust it. You don’t need a reason to cancel. You don’t need to justify it. Say, “I’m not available anymore.” Block them. Tell a colleague. Report them to the platform.

There’s no honor in pretending you’re okay when you’re not. Your safety isn’t a risk worth taking. No client is worth your peace of mind.

Final Thought: You’re Not Just an Escort-You’re a Professional

People don’t always see it this way. But you’re not a fantasy. You’re not a product. You’re someone who shows up, listens, adapts, and stays safe-every single time. That’s a skill. That’s a service. And it deserves respect.

When you treat yourself like a professional, your clients start treating you like one too.